Thanksgiving

Thanksgiving

Thanksgiving is approaching, and it’s one of my favorite holidays. All of my family gets together and we basically have a potluck of delicious food at my house. I usually have to clean the dishes, but I don’t mind because I’m generally really glad that me my family had a chance to come together and enjoy a meal. During Thanksgiving dinner, all of my family goes around and says what we’re genuinely thankful for and discuss plans for the Christmas dinner. After eating, we usually all collapse on the floor or couches and either watch the football game, or fall asleep on full stomachs. Later on that night me, my sister, and my dad usually put up the Christmas tree, and decorate the house with lights, but this Thanksgiving is different. This Thanksgiving I have to work.

When I found out that I was scheduled to work on Thanksgiving, I tried to schedule time off for that day, but for some odd reason Thanksgiving is one of our busiest days of the year and I would be needed more than ever. I would even be in jeopardy of losing my job if I don’t show up.  It’s not enough that I have to work overtime on the Wednesday before Thanksgiving Day due to all of the appointments people set up with their stylist, but on Thanksgiving Thursday too! I simply don’t understand why people feel the need to get their hair done on Thanksgiving when the Monday, Tuesday, and Wednesday before thanksgiving are available. I understand that people have busy lives and have recurring appointments on Thursdays,  but I think it’s not fair that I have to come into work on Thanksgiving Day; a day that I should be enjoying my family, friends, and watching the Lions lose yet another football game.

If the salon must be open that day then it should open and close early, in order to allow for those who have to cook, clean, and prepare dinner that day to do so. I shouldn’t have to come home late that night to a plate wrapped in saran wrap in the refrigerator for me. I shouldn’t have to look through my dad’s phone for pictures of events that happened throughout the day.  I shouldn’t have to hear that the lions lost again because I wasn’t there to see it. I shouldn’t have to work that day period!! This is ridiculous.

Argumentative Essay

In the United States, interracial adoption has become increasingly accepted, although the topic still provokes debate. Supporters of interracial adoption argue that not only does interracial adoption provide an inviting and loving home for the child, but also helps celebrate diversity among the household. Those against interracial adoption argue that the children being adopted by those of a different racial heritage often suffer from loss of identity, feelings of loneliness, and feelings of not belonging.

Personally, I feel like as long as the children are being adopted into a loving household it shouldn’t matter what race adopts them, however, I do understand both argument points. To be honest, I was interested in this topic in the 11^th grade for a similar argumentative assignment, but instead I chose to write about something else. I’ve done a lot of research on the topic already, and this just seems like the perfect time to write about it.

Compare/ Contrast Essay

My essay explores the differences and similarities between arranged and free choice marriages. Although many Americans and those of western society view arranged marriage as being cruel and immoral for those involved, research has shown that most arranged marriages last longer, benefit both parties involved, and are generally more successful than free-choice marriages. I also explained how big an obstacle in-laws can be in a free choice marriage, but in arranged marriages, family support from both sides already exists.  I also contrasted the divorce rates among the two marriage types and talked about how both marriage types report high levels of satisfaction, commitment, and passionate companion love.

Ted Talk: How to Spot a Liar

In her ted talk, Pamela Meyers tells the audience the signs of a liar and how to spot one easily. She explains that no one is an original liar, and although there are good and bad liars, every liar uses the same techniques. She went into a lot of detail explaining the techniques and tactics liars use in everyday scenarios. She also explained the differences between what an honest person would do in a situation as opposed to a dishonest person’s reaction. Meyers explains to the audience that lying is a cooperative act, and if someone has ever been lied to, it is only because that person chose to be lied to. Pamela encouraged the audience to seek out the truth and to tell the truth.

I personally really enjoyed listening to Meyer’s speech. When I read the title, I knew that I wouldn't regret watching. I found the topic to be extremely interesting, and I found myself wishing that I had her “powers” of knowing when someone is telling the truth. Life would be so much easier for me if I were to know if people are being truly genuine or not. 

http://www.ted.com/talks/pamela_meyer_how_to_spot_a_liar